By: Nelson Sacristan, MA, CSAT, Clinical Manager- EHN Vancouver
Over the years, we have watched our clients successfully complete Continuing Care (formerly aftercare) and set off on the next stage of their journey in recovery. For some, this means stronger commitments in 12 step recovery, while for others it means therapy or a support group. Some folks leave the Continuing Care program and are fine with maintaining their recovery lifestyle using a variety of sources. Others ask us, “What comes next?”
This question was posed to me about a year ago by some of our most committed and motivated clients who were coming to the end of their year in the Continuing Care program at EHN Vancouver. Coincidentally, we were already looking at expanding our services and starting a ‘post-Continuing Care’ group seemed like the right step, at the right time.
This group, which really has no name but is sometimes referred to as ‘second stage’ around the office, is quite different from our regular groups:
1. Membership is open to anyone who completed an aftercare program, no matter which treatment program they came from. This includes inpatient, IOP or our family programs.
2. We accept folks who are not affiliated with Edgewood but are in recovery.
3. Our members are steadfast in their commitment to recovery. All clients have abstinence under their belts and are active in working a meaningful recovery.
4. This group is united by its commitment to ‘going deeper’, their curiousity to learn, and willingness to take risks towards greater intimacy with each other and with the people in their lives.
5. In early recovery, a fear of relapse and being ‘sick and tired of feeling sick and tired” is often what motivates compliance and successful abstinence. “What comes next?” is about understanding and growth: How am I perceived by others? What do I need to change to be more real, more authentic? Where does my stuff originate? What am I willing to do to really change, to grow, and to be more fully who I am?
‘Second-stage is a process group, which means that it can be as much about the members of the group as it is about what goes on outside the meeting, in the members’ lives. We have a structure that includes checking in with each other, being available for issues that arise within the meeting, and applying what is learned to other parts of life. Emphasis is placed on applying the knowledge gained from experiencing intimacy in the group to other meaningful relationships.
EHN Vancouver uses processes and activities which reflect the interests of the group. Some of the topics covered include the similarities between the “The Hero’s Journey” and Recovery and Triangulation in Relationships. The philosophy of the group focuses on manifestation. Often what happens in group therapy is a reflection of what a person experiences in their real life. Therefore, what is learned in group can be applied to resolve issues on the outside.
What happens during group therapy is a “microcosm”- a snapshot of other issues. An analogy using the idea of ‘holograms’ can help explain the process. Holograms, from the Greek “whole message” are images of an object burned onto photographic plates. A hologram uses lasers set in an array that can capture the 3 dimensions of the object. When you look at a hologram, you can see how similar the view the dimensionality of the original object is in 3 dimensions. When a hologram breaks, each piece reflects the whole image of the hologram! Similarly, the group interaction is a piece, a ‘reflection’ of what the member brings to the group from the outside.
Along with recovery and curiosity, members of the group share a willingness to introspect, to be willing to sit with feedback and the desire to be accountable, knowing that accountability is the check on behavior and a mirror to how we make choices in life.
Are you looking for a new way to support your long-term recovery? This post continuing care group may be right for you. It takes place on Thursday mornings from 10AM to noon at our Vancouver office. Contact me – Nelson Sacristan, Clinical Manager – at 604-734-1100 for more details about registration.
Nelson Sacristan, MA, CSAT, Clinical Manager of EHN Vancouver holds a Master’s Degree in Counselling Psychology as well as certification in substance abuse counseling. He has been working in the addictions field for 20 years. Nelson sees his role as helping our clients and their families to understand the nature of addictions, and to facilitate discovery of their inner strengths and integrity. As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, he is also available to help men and women struggling with compulsive sexual behaviours